| # | Title | Further Reading | LTYM # | Moral | Year | Created | Modified | Place | DocType | Ready? | Gender | Category | Questions | | |
| 565 | The API | | | With an API your data structure still works | 2022 | 09/08/2022 | 11/28/2023 | Advisor | Story | No | Female | Project Mgmt | | 1 | |
| 566 | Stepwise | | | We don't get perfection from the beginning | 2022 | 09/08/2022 | 11/28/2023 | Advisor | Story | No | Female | Project Mgmt | | 2 | |
| 572 | The Cost of Training | Peter Senge's classic, "The Fifth Discipline: The Art & Practice of The Learning Organization," Deckle Edge, March 21, 2006 | | Training is a key part of your budget | 2022 | 10/11/2022 | 11/28/2023 | Advisor | Story | Yes | Female | Project Mgmt,Training | 1) What percent of revenue does your organization budget for trai | 3 | |
| 580 | The Eagle and the Snake | See "How to work for a sonofabitch," Letter #17. If you can't fight on your own turf, fight on neutral ground. | 17 | Fight your battles on your turf | 2022 | 12/26/2022 | 11/28/2023 | Advisor | Story | No | Male | Politics | | 4 | |
| 581 | The Cost of Complexity | | | Complexity is too hard to get right | 2022 | 12/26/2022 | 11/28/2023 | Advisor | Story | No | Male | ERP,Project Mgmt | | 5 | |
| 583 | Building Trust | From the appendix of my ongoing discussions with Richard Cho: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jPXlxJLC732vNIY-ajxKqw8IqSzOp0tDvdzBYri-uzs/edit#heading=h.6bxg3sikdlhp Appendix E - Building Trust First, some umbrella thoughts: Trust is a two-way street. As a leader, you want people to trust you more. But it’s also about you trusting them more. And saying build trust, is the right verb. Trust is built a piece at a time. It has to be earned, and that takes time. It’s not built in a day. Unfortunately, trust can be knocked down in a blink of an eye. Failing to tell the truth (lying) is probably the fastest way to destroy trust. Criticizing in public is another way to lose the trust of your team. There are more, but let’s keep the focus on the positive. I tried to find a good article or book on trust.[1] But I felt that each one I read missed some important things. So I wrote my own list, below. There was a video by a retired UM Ross Business School Professor that Shirley sent me that I really like. So watch this one and tell me what your takeaways and questions are: https://robertequinn.com/online-learning/ To start a discussion, here is my list of a dozen things that build trust in a team. What resonates? Have a vision that people understand, buy into and are excited about
Give people the benefit of the doubt; mistakes don’t necessarily mean bad intentions; they may be learning opportunities
Accept failure; if you don’t have it you’re not experimenting enough
When you know better, let people do it; coaching them and give them feedback, but they own it
Have peoples back; defend them and keep the wolves at bay
Show integrity transparently; say what you’re thinking, what you’re going to do, and then do it
Show up; be an audience for your team
Play to strengths, not weaknesses; building on strengths bears more fruit than (trying to) correcting people
Listen and learn about your people’s dreams, family’s and context (you know this about your best customers, yes?)
Service in, service out (see #9)
Praise in public; critique In private; find ways for a person who screwed up to save face. Be vulnerable and be willing to change Footnotes: [1] 1) The closest I found in the book category is by Stephen Covey’s son, Stephen M.R. Covey, “The SPEED of Trust: The One Thing that Changes Everything,” Kindle Edition, 2006, https://www.amazon.com/SPEED-Trust-Thing-Changes-Everything-ebook/dp/B000MGATWG
2) For an inspiring video about team trust, see “Achieving More with Trust: George Dom at TEDxSonomaCounty,” 2013, https://youtu.be/xuRRlld8VDI
3) For a good story about trust, see “Do what you say you will and Own your mistakes“, in Wendy Dailey, “Two Stories About Building Trust,” Workology, Feb 14, 2018, https://workology.com/two-stories-about-building-trust/
4) For an alternate list and trust-building on virtual teams, see the respected recruiting firm, Spencer Stuart’s, blog post on “No Trust, No Team: Six Best Practices for Building Trust on Virtual Teams,” by James M. Citrin, Darleen Derosa, March 25, 2021, https://www.spencerstuart.com/leadership-matters/2021/march/no-trust-no-team | | Trust is earned over time, and destroyed in an instant | 2023 | 03/31/2023 | 11/28/2023 | Advisor | Story | No | Male | Teams | | 6 | |
| 587 | Using the Wishlist | See "Phase 3," Letter #137
See "Saying No without Saying No," Letter #36 | 137 | All good ideas have a home; not all good ideas get done | 2023 | 06/15/2023 | 11/28/2023 | Advisor | Story | No | Male | Project Mgmt | | 7 | |
| 592 | The Lego Approach | See "Assemble the Components," LTYM #5 | 5 | Every IT project is an opportunity to build your library of reusable parts | 2023 | 10/19/2023 | 01/25/2024 | Advisor | Story | No | Female | Design | | 8 | |
| 593 | Unnecessary Integration | See The Lego Approach, Story #592 | 592 | Integration is costly; unnecessary integration is wasteful | 2023 | 10/19/2023 | 02/08/2024 | Advisor | Story | No | Male | Design | | 9 | |
| 597 | Paying Attention II | | | What workers want is to understand that you're paying attention | 2023 | 11/18/2023 | 01/25/2024 | Advisor | Story | No | Male | People Mgmt | | 10 | |
| 598 | Planting Trees | | | Take care of obsolescence | 2023 | 11/18/2023 | 01/25/2024 | Advisor | Story | No | Male | Project Mgmt | | 11 | |
| 599 | Surviving a Tsunami | | | Resiliency can be built into the culture | 2023 | 11/18/2023 | 01/25/2024 | Advisor | Story | No | Female | Crisis Mgmt | | 12 | |
| 600 | Upstream | | | For what's happening downstream, you need to go upstream | 2023 | 11/18/2023 | 01/25/2024 | Advisor | Story | No | Male | Problem Solving | | 13 | |
| 602 | What does success look like? | | | An objective is not complete until it has a success vision | 2023 | 11/21/2023 | 11/28/2023 | Advisor | Story | No | Male | Leadership,Project Mgmt | | 14 | |
| 603 | The Metaphor of the Bus | Jim Collins, “Good to Great,” 2001, See chapter 3, “First Who… Then What”, https://www.amazon.com/Good-Great-Some-Companies-Others-ebook/dp/B0058DRUV6/ | | Get the right people on your bus, and in the right seat | 2023 | 11/22/2023 | 01/25/2024 | Advisor | Story | No | Female | Leadership | | 15 | |
| 604 | Jell | | | Nothing succeeds like success | 2023 | 11/22/2023 | 01/25/2024 | Advisor | Story | No | Male | Leadership | | 16 | |
| 605 | Customer Success | | | I need to pay attention to customer success | 2023 | 11/22/2023 | 01/25/2024 | Advisor | Story | No | Female | Leadership,Customer Service | | 17 | |
| 606 | Leadership vs. Management | | | A leader's success depends on the team's success | 2023 | 11/22/2023 | 01/25/2024 | Advisor | Story | No | Male | Leadership | | 18 | |
| 608 | Conversation, again | See "Talking your way to the answer," LTYM #112 | 112 | Possibilities rise from the conversation | 2023 | 11/29/2023 | 01/25/2024 | Advisor | Story | No | Male | Conversation | | 19 | |
| 611 | Infosec | | | Test your security processes | 2023 | 01/25/2024 | 01/25/2024 | Advisor | Story | No | Male | Security | | 20 | |
| 613 | Retention | | | Ask customers why they are leaving | 2024 | 01/25/2024 | 01/25/2024 | Advisor | Story | No | Male | Customer Service | | 21 | |
| 614 | Reactive thinking | | | Often the reactive mind is more powerful than the creative mind | 2024 | 01/25/2024 | 05/02/2024 | Advisor | Story | No | Male | Strategy | | 22 | |
| 615 | Project Conversations | | | Plan on daily conversations among the project specialists | 2023 | 01/25/2024 | 01/25/2024 | Advisor | Story | No | Female | Project Mgmt | | 23 | |
| 616 | The Seawall | | | Run to the signs | 2023 | 01/25/2024 | 01/26/2024 | Advisor | Story | No | Male | Crisis Mgmt | | 24 | |
| 617 | The Rowboat | | | It's the team that wins the race | 2024 | 02/08/2024 | 02/08/2024 | Advisor | Story | No | Female | Leadership | | 25 | |
| 618 | The Snowball | See "Jell," Story #604 | 604 | Leadership is about removing obstacles | 2014 | 02/08/2024 | 02/08/2024 | Advisor | Story | No | Male | Leadership | | 26 | |
| 623 | The Fisherman | | | What's your fisherman story? | 2024 | 05/02/2024 | 05/02/2024 | Advisor | Story | No | Male | Goals | | 27 | |
| 624 | The 5C's | See "The Fisherman," Story #623 | 623 | If you're not succeeding, try changing your approach | 2022 | 05/02/2024 | 05/02/2024 | Advisor | Story | No | Male | Goals,Strategy | | 28 | |
| 455 | The Coat Hook | | | What you learn will stick, if you are persistent and persevere. | 2017 | 03/15/2017 | 01/03/2023 | Ann Arbor | Story | Yes | Female | Values,Metaphor | 1. What are the things you remember from your last class or semin | 29 | |
| 465 | An Audience of Two | | | Words matter, they have a life of their own that is passed on with each telling. | 2017 | 07/11/2017 | 07/11/2017 | Ann Arbor | Story | No | Female | Stories,Communication | | 30 | |